Wednesday, December 24, 2008

So true.....

"Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it."
Matthew 7:13-14

Tuesday, December 23, 2008

倒数-

在倒数当中也在数算神在今年的恩典

短短的365天,在神的带领下,完成了很多的事

5.4.3.2.1....

5-5个project-fashion show, vessel handover, 2 dubai exhibition project, 1 wedding
4-去了4个国家-泰国,杜百,澳洲,文莱
3-在绿洲成功的主办了-园游会, 少年营, 十周年庆典
2-认识了两批新的朋友-gangster kids 和 绿洲的同工+教会
1-和国兴开了一间event company

很多朋友对我的现状感到担心.
在吉隆玻的时候, 朋友更以为我穷到不行,
因为他们一路都以为我没在工作,
他们的关心都听在心里
不过
今年可是我最得意的一年,
终于可以过
我和上帝求的生活,
我好像根找到水源,
迷失了找到方向.
在短短的365天, 神的应许一一实现
神的恩典真的够用.

虽然不能穿smart smart的工作服去上班,
不过能天天穿haiwaii裤去营会和偶尔打打排球也不错,
还以为回来每工做,一定会死的很残
不过神的恩典真的够用.
不但没花很多钱,还赚了不少.
神是无所不能的。。

愿用神的话与大家一起度过2008,

先求他的国和他的义,这一切都必加给你们
-马太6:33

所以不要忧虑,说:'我们该吃什么,喝什么? 穿什么?' 这些都是教外人所寻求的,你们的天父原知道你们需要的一切
-马太6:31-32


一起张望2009的到来,数选他的恩典

Christmas Party at Val's Place

I love the gathering. It was filled with joy and laughter. Brynda, u did a great job.

The Christmas Tree



The Delicious Meal






Christmas Tree with Presents



The Bloke



The CG members





From Left to Right:

Benny- used to be my mobile phone kaki. chat almost on everything and can always get very good discount for everything

Syaz- the person that organised the dinner but disappeared for the whole nite to help some stranger to get into a hse. talk about scarifying love...lol...

Val- the host for the nite, lawyer turned model or vise versa (hahaa)

Chin- the cute cute auditor that i want to hook up with my sista but is attached now and getting really good pay


Jo Jo- the forever calm+compose+systematic environmentalist

Michelle@there is hope (listed in my mobile)- the person that like to quarrel with me and apologize afterwards

Brynda- the forever loving cell leader

God's greatest christmas present- Love

I am so thankful to God for this short breakaway to KL. being the bestman wasnt an easy task. it was quite stressful and i have numerous people coming to me to ask whether I am taking good care of the ring. However, it was all worth it to be able to witness my Little Xiao Mei Mei-Grace walking down the aisle to be married to her 8 yrs long boy friend and now husband, Shaun. Hectic but was a very beautiful day. Love is in the air.

I also managed to meet up with many old friends. mostly church friends. and people

that I have met in Sydney. Its so amazing. Back in Miri, I have been playing the role as the Big Brother,taking care of the growing up kids or younger kids in church. But here, I am just being me. Having a good chat, catching up with friends, discussing about our future to mostly friends at my age.

Even during my bus ride back from Bintulu, was reading a book and God was speaking to me. It was so amazing. Got encouraged by the words in the book. as if God giving me very clear instruction to what I should be doing next year. Many of my church friends in kl felt really bad that i have to fly 2 hours from KL-Bintulu and another 3 hours bus ride back to Miri ( am trying to save some air ticket money as tickets from kl-miri costs about RM580 whereas KL-Bintulu is only RM300 plus). But i totally enjoyed the ride. Overwhelmed with God's word and His love.

have a look at some photos taken during the short trip.


Pre-Wedding Dinner with Grace



Our Suits



Church Ceremony



Wedding Dinner


Hotel Room @ Hilton



Bride & Me

Tuesday, December 16, 2008

give & take 取与舍之间

was thinking to write in chinese. but cant find the chinese programme in my sista laptop

watched a tv programme. they interviewed a lady (i shall named her Ms Li) that spend most of her time with drug addicts and HIV positive 'mangsa' in mainland china. The conversation recorded as follow:

Reporter: Dont you think its a waste of time to spend time with them? to risk your health, to provide them with monies. Almost 95% of the addicts do not come back and do not follow your programme

Ms. Li: Even for the 5%, I am willing to spend my time with them. To help them.

The commentary ended with a sentence, to help them you need a lot of determination.

I pray for the determination...and i was told that to serve the youth, you need a rubber heart, a heart that can be squeezed many times and bounce back.

regardless, current situation...heart broken. but glad that i m seeing a few kids that are growing. I pray that your hardwork will give you good result.I hope that you all sow seed at the good soil 种子被撒在好的心田。 I see your effort and the most important thing is you have learnt to commit 付出 and sacrify 犧牲.

我雖然是一個死纏爛打的輔導員,不過也會有放棄的時候。。

Sunday, December 14, 2008

爱。改变生命










墨尔本之旅

墨尔本之旅

写给妹妹的…

在这一次南下,感受良多。

看见以前blur blur的妹妹都长大了,
以前什么都要kakak照顾的妹妹已经开始为自己的生活作安排了
为自己的将来开始计划了

以前该连问路都不敢的你们

现在已经学会:

自己订机票
自己搭的士去apartment
安排爸妈的晚餐
自己回悉尼

从谈话中发现

你们开始有自己的立场
开始学习取舍
选择科目, 选择group member, 选择朋友
也开始要放弃一些朋友
也有很多泪

成长虽然辛苦不过这是必经的过程吧
继续加油

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